This is Amy's favotie song she wanted me to put it here for you....Ashley,
Below are some letters that I have asked to be posted on the web page. These are to show you that the
information and opionions that have been told you about your father are misleading and false. Your father
is a wonderful man, husband, and father. Someday I know that you will come to recognize that in your own
heart. The manipulation that you have experienced from others will show its colors someday. Our door
and hearts are always open to you. I know that your Dad has an extream amount of love for you, cares for you
and thinks of you often. We all love you, and miss your company, and pray that you are healthy and well.
Take time to read what is posted below and truely digest the words that are being said.
I love you very much,
Zackeriah loves you very much,
Amy
To Whom It May Concern:
Shawn Christie is my brother. His wife asked me to write this letter, and I did not
hesitate to do so. I have a high opinion of him and writing this letter will be easy. Shawn
has many great qualities.
Shawn has gone into business with his wife. Being his own boss, has allowed
him the flexibility to be there for his children. He can make time for school functions, for
family vacations, or for anything his family needs of him. Shawn and his wife, have a
wonderful relationship. They communicate well and share the responsibilities of the
business, household, and family. Just one way Shawn keeps his family close, is by going
on family hikes. Shawn's house is surrounded by National Forests. Going on these
walks gets everyone up and active, away from the television. They have long talks and
play games as they walk. They have a very stable family life.
Shawn is my big brother, four years my senior. As far back as I can remember, he
has looked out for me and protected me. I remember sitting down with him as he did his
homework. He would show me what he was doing and explained it out to me. I was the
only second grader in my class that could do square roots. He also encouraged me in all
my sports. All growing up, I looked up to him and it hasn't stopped. Even more so now
I look to him for guidance. I am now a single mother of a six year old. Raising a child is
the toughest thing I've ever done. Shawn has been there every step of the way. I'm
always second guessing myself when it comes to my daughter. I can always count on
Shawn to reassure me. When I get frustrated, Shawn is there to talk to me and guide me
in the right direction. Sometimes, when my daughter won't listen to me, Shawn takes the
time to talk with her and reinforce the rules I set for her. Through the terrible twos,
Shawn would sit down with her regularly to help me. Other than my brother, my
daughter has never had a good, male, role model consistently in her life. She loves her Uncle Shawn and never
passes on a chance to spend time with him. I pray that my daughter continues to look up to Shawn. He truly is
worthy of the status of a mentor.
I've seen Shawn with both his children, Ashley and Zack. Shawn has always
shown both unconditional love. Shawn is a provider. He has provided Ashley and Zack with the foundation for a
successful life. He has provided the foundation financially, emotionally, and physically. For Ashley, he has never let
the court ordered child support cap his responsibility. He not only pays the ordered amount, but he also provides
majority of her clothing and much more. In the past, he has paid more than the ordered amount when Ashley's
mother expressed that she needed more money. Shawn's financial participation is guided by the needs of Ashley.
He will always make sure she has everything she needs. Shawn has been an emotional support for Ashley. Shawn
has made an effort to be a part of Ashley's life with no exceptions. Ashley's mother has made that a challenge. She has stirred up
troubles throughout Ashley life. Shawn has not let that deter him from being the best father he can be.
Shawn has taken multiple fathering classes, not only to better him self, but to also guide other's. He has even taught
classes through a local organization designed to help fathers. There are many success stories in which he has helped
young fathers gain the tools to become loving caring father and providers. In today's world, men are quick to dodge
their responsibility of fathering, but not Shawn. He has fought to be a father, and he takes great pride in his children.
Thank you for your time
cory
Ashley,
Don't let anyone ever tell you or don't you believe for a second that your father does not want to be a part of your life.
He has boxes and boxes of documented lies and deceptions that were manufactured to drive a wedge between the two of you. He as done everything possible to be a part of your life. He recognizes that for your benefit and to save you from the ongoing torment of the struggle itself, that sometimes the best course of action is no action at all. But do not view this as a surrender or as an acknowledgement of defeat, No quite the contrary in the end he will be victorious. By that I mean you will see the light and see him as he is and see others for who they are. I personally will make sure of that. I would have already done it if it were not for him trying to protect you and spare you at this age from knowing the truth. I have never been witness to a greater man than he.. and any time that he puts his mind to something it is done marvelously. The success and great fortune he has had in his life both business and personal relationships is something to behold. He and Amy both are the happiest most well adjusted couple I have ever seen. I have in my possession many letters from others who see him as I do. I will attach one of the letters just so you can see that there are others who see your father as I do and not as your mother and her family has portrayed him. And again he is indeed an amazing person. I believe that when the time is right you and he will reconnect. Someday you will see things as they truly are you will know how lucky you are to have him. Have you ever taken notice how your mother treats her extended family can you see the creation of drama and conflict . Someday light will be shown and you and your fathers relationship will truly be something to behold. Until then follow your heart, follow god and know that although you can not see us we are all there for you and pray for you constantly.
love always
---David
This is to recommend SHAWN CHRISTIE, with whom I have had the pleasure of working since December 1998. As a former federal intelligence officer assigned to projects with Interpol, CIA and DEA, I have worked with a variety of people internationally and I would place Shawn among the best of those.
Shawn is a manager who takes his employees' concerns to heart and finds a satisfactory resolution of all problems. He takes time to listen to the facts in a given situation and makes appropriate decisions or recommendations. He looks out for the best interests of those on his team and is easy to approach with concerns or problems. He is friendly and in good humor.
Shawn is creative and talented. He often arrives hours early and works late when particular situations arise. I have seen him in the store many times on his days off, just to check in or follow up with a project. It matters very much to him that the store and its undertakings do well. It is a matter of pride to him and a source of satisfaction on a job well done.
I have seen Shawn during the extremely stressful weeks of inventory, and he was the sole manager who kept the unavoidable frustration and fatigue to himself. I have never known him to lose his temper or act in a rude or curt manner. He is polite and courteous to customers and employees, and can always be counted on to have a pleasant demeanor.
Shawn is an exemplary father and his daughter's well being remains his top priority. This is indicative of his sensitivity and awareness of the larger picture, where his personal sacrifices on his child's behalf are done willingly, without complaint, and with maturity.
Shawn is an intelligent and well informed citizen, and has studied issues enough to have formed sturdy opinions. In a time when young people turn away from public service, it is refreshing to find a young man of conviction, talent and principle. Shawn has integrity and a good sense of fair play.
I would not hesitate to work with Shawn again in any situation and would recommend him highly to anyone seeking a capable, intelligent, courteous, talented and resourceful young man. Shawn is definitely a person who will do well in whatever endeavor he undertakes and those who employ him will benefit greatly from his many abilities and attributes.
linda
To whom it may concern,
Shawn Christle was active In Ashley's education while she was a student in my classroom. He made every parent/teacher conference that we scheduted. He also purchased a text message aniline for Ina daughter as an additional roans of communication. He was in the classroom as much as his job would allow. If Mr. Christie were uncertain of anything in Ashley's academic life, he would initiate a meeting with with me. One manner in which Mr Christie demonstrated his affection for Ashley was to surptise her with a birthday party in the classroom.
If you have any other questions concerning this matter....
T. Witzel
It has taken some contemplation to know where to begin and to be fair and objective. Shawn is a fine, lovingly interactive Dad who has always been there for his family. He has had to be proactive for all his rights to be a father to his daughter. Her best interests are fore-front to him. This is not the first time Amanda, Ashley's mother, has accentuated a situation, exaggerating to the point of being untrue. It seems so sad that in a world of negligent, abusive or absent fathers that a truly good father has to struggle for his rights.
I out proud of the kind of father he is.
Shawn and his current wife Amy provide a warm and loving home for the children and in no way are unkind to them. They spend a lot of time in a variety of activities aimed at their growth and enjoyment. Family life is central.
We all miss Ashley very much and have our own special bond with her. She knows our love for her. Ashley is confused by undue negative influence. If her mother would understand how lucky Ashley is for having a father that cares so much and has her best interest at heart, she could find a harmony. The best thing for Ashley is to have her parents working for her benefit not trying to pull her to one side. Ashley should feel comfortable amongst her large extended family without negative tales. She needs positive reinforcement on both sides of the fence to alleviate confusion.
Amy & Shawn have a business that they have successfully built with hard work and ethics. Amy has been a good friend and confidant to Ashley and loves her very much, never trying to take her mothers' place. They frequently play games, help with homework and limit television time. they are involved with school, school activities and have a loving home with family values.
Shawn has always taken good care of all his daughters needs, paying more than court appointed support to her mother when she needed it for rent or other needs. He also has adjusted his time with Ashley so she could go on vacations with her mother. Mediation on behalf of Ashley will undoubtedly help her with sorting out her feelings and understanding that she doesn't have to make a choice between parents. She is free to love them both.
Barbara
So he got up and went to his father.
"But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.
Luke 15 verse 20t.
Somewhere there's someone who dreams of your smile,
and finds in you.... that life is worth while.
So when you are lonely, remember it's true
Somebody somewhere is thinking of you.
---blackburn
